Dating a man twenty years older
Ok So I am 43, look 34 and only ever find young men attractive and vice versa.
I never even meet older guys, all I meet is guys ages 22-35.
Just allow things to take a natural course and if it all works out, then great. dating someone who could possibly the same age as your children is not cool.saying something is ok does not make it so. i am 37 separated from my partner we fell out of love a long time ago, he was 15yrs older than me.
He may leave you for someone younger in the end, or you may leave him, that can happen in any relationship. eventually he will want children and will need a younger woman to provide him with there isnt much in common when it comes to life experience. I have fallen in love with someone now who is 14 yrs younger than me, and do you know what i have discovered myself, i have found out that what i taut was love with my partner was not actually love, it was more dependance.
Even though we are just dating for a bit of fun, i do like her alot, and the reason i go for the older women is because alot of younger girls in thier 20s play to many mind games b, too much drama and c, not as experienced in the bedroom!! i read somewhere the rule of thumb for age compatability, take older persons age divide by 2 then add 7example if the women is 42/2=21 7=28 So if the guy is 28 or older it can work as compatability and maturity levels are still ok. just a rough guide Almost all of the guys I've dated have been about ten years younger than me. Still, I'm open to dating men closer to my own age or older, but it just hasn't happened that way for me.
It's not because I seek younger men, they come after me. It would be interesting to hear from guys who like older women and get more insight.
No one can be the one to say who one can love and who one cannot love. If you tuely love each other dont let society dictate who you should love or be loved by. his family were a little shocked, so were mine, but not overly so. So do the problems, no matter what the age difference. People can NOT help who they fall in love with, people today are so judgemental, it could happen to YOU.
As for me, I'm still looking for the right man for me, and I'm open to some range of age difference in either direction. Yes, I think relationships between older and younger people can work if there is compatability.
Not all is dependent on superficiality in our existence.
Now would all you negative thinkers go and find something else to complain about, and leave us cougars and our cubs alone So-called cougars are women in their sexual primes, so I can certainly understand the chemistry.
The people who claim to find them disgusting seem to be inexperienced about the infinite variety of loving adult relationships.I think it's interesting that he feels no regard for age difference, but perhaps as the years pass, his attitude about that may change.The girls all go gaga over him, but he's so much more mature than the girls his age, and he hasn't found one his equal.It was difficult at first and I thought no this is not going to happen but he did all the chasing and in the end I gave in.