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If he’s been conditioned to think that sexual desire is shameful and then he gets rejected when asking a girl out for the first time (like what happened to me), he will consider this as solid proof that he should be passive.He will then wait patiently for a girl to select him, causing him to forever place women on a pedestal of status above him.Unfortunately this description often includes complete lack of sexuality and leadership, and gives the boy a picture of a lower-status, passive and asexual friend (be polite, compliment her, buy her dinner etc.).
They will not attempt any sexual move that puts them at risk of rejection.Many boys are conditioned as they grow older to feel ashamed of their sexual desire.They are told that it is materialistic to be attracted to girl before you “get to know her.” Romantic movies portray the asexual wimpy friend as a hero, and the sexually dominant male as a sleazy sadist.I didn’t realise that women actually enjoy sex more than men until I was in my mid-20s! One of the reasons men become obsessed with pornography is because it’s the only media outlet that shows women enjoying sex, especially beyond the traditional vanilla (religious) relationship model.
Combine all of this with the boy’s first sexual experiences in early teen years.
And there was no-one there to teach us, because they were too scared to give the wrong advice.