Understanding man and dating


16-Feb-2018 17:00

What about a romantic relationship without moving toward marriage?

Isn't there another kind of relationship described in Scripture where a man and woman can share romantic intimacy with some physical intimacy without moving toward marriage? This kind of relationship does not exist in the Scriptures.

It also involves the joy of romantic desire/attraction and intimacy and sexual desire/attraction and intimacy.

The Song of Songs, the dialogue between King Solomon and his bride, is a celebration of the romantic and physical love between a husband and wife.

1 Jn.3: 1 says, "How great is the love the Father has lavished on us that we should be called children of God! " Gal.5: 13 says, “Rather serve one another in love.” Heb.10: 24 says, “Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” God desires that we serve one another in love by giving of ourselves to help each other grow in Christ as fellow-believers.

Also, in our culture, through "dating" people will often find a life partner and marry.

How men and women view a "date" and "dating" can have a profound effect on their future.

It can involve affection as we work together in Christ, but affection is not a necessary element.

We are commanded in the Scriptures to show love to all believers, but we are not commanded to make all believers our friends.Proverbs gives several characteristics of friends and friendships.Prov.17: 17 says, “A friend loves at all times.” Prov.18: 24 says, “There is a friend that sticks closer than a brother.” Prov.27: 6 says, “When a friend rebukes you, that rebuke can be trusted.” Prov.27: 9 says, “The pleasantness of having a friend springs from his earnest counsel.” Prov.27: 10 says, “Do not forsake your friend.” These verses bring out the fact that the Lord blesses friendship and encourages us to develop them.This liking involves a "friendship kind of" affection based often on personality and common likes and interests.